This sounds like a great read. How do your and your partner's interests mesh... and diverge? How is your "spark"... or, to put it another way, when you look at them, is there still that want need the hell with thought I'm so going to jump you feeling? Amongst other things.
Sean Keener's got a great summary of Will Our Love Last: The Book.
I can think of quite a few people who'd benefit from reading this book (especially the chap tapping these keys). There just may have to be a copy gracing the shelves of the AntSaint lair soon...
From Publishers Weekly
"Quietly disputing the "men are from Mars" theory, psychologist Hamburg argues that the key to a satisfying marriage lies in choosing the right partner based on compatibility in three areas: on a practical level, sexually and in "wavelength." His thoughtful explanation of why he believes mutual understanding is more important in marriage than communication or hard work is illustrated with examples from his own practice and peppered with questions aimed at helping readers assess their compatibility with their partners."
